I just read this article in The Atlantic and all I felt was agreement and then, a spiraling feeling of, “Oh Shit! I think I do a lot of this!!”

I tell myself I am going to be a hardass Asian Mommy, but you know, I really do give in a lot. DS is going through a phase of crying whenever he doesn’t get his way, and I feel as if I give in a lot more (although, he does get his fair share of refusals) because if I hear anymore crying I might just smack the boy. I don’t! But geez, this phase better end soon!

Anyhow, my brain is mush right now, but this article just makes me more worried about what I’m fucking up. *sigh*